Why I did not want to be a mother

They fuck you up, your mum and dad.       They may not mean to, but they do.   They fill you with the faults they had    And add some extra, just for you. Philip Larkin Despite what others might think, I actually am very much aware of my shortcomings. I have always been very guarded about how I’m […]

Why ‘Adopt Don’t Shop’ is Just Bad Propaganda

I’m sure there are a few articles already written about why adopt don’t shop is a horrible and unrealistic slogan, but here is my observation of it and why I think adopt or shop responsibly is more beneficial. This is going to be a lengthy analysis looking at the the biological reasons why this mantra […]

Unexpected Motherhood

When you find out you are pregnant when it was not a part of your plan, there’s like a moment of silence. Everything seems to turn into white noise as your brain goes into hyperdrive as you experience some kind of shock. Everything that happens after that is all a unique experience. What the people […]