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What is MASCULINE?

This is not really a topic I had intended to talk about but I've been seeing a lot of things talking about feminism and toxic masculinity and even more unrelated just normal life instances that has been making this topic sit in the forefront of my mind recently. Particularly because Asian masculinity has been a [...]

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When You Realize You Are Falling For Someone YOU DON’T F*CKING KNOW (jking but not)

Ok. So I am in all honesty someone who has always been teetering on depression. I'm told it's because I honestly just think too much. My brain is constantly cycling in this crazy storm and it jumps from everything from my opinion on japanese food to cultural appropriation and society issues with masculinity and the [...]

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Stop being a f*cking hater…

OK so for most people there is a level of hater. Especially when things are not going great for you or you perceive them as doing better. But I've noticed the internet gives us a medium where we can be our worst selves and have little consequences. And yes, it's harmful, hurtful and just plain [...]

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Unexpected Motherhood

When you find out you are pregnant when it was not a part of your plan, there's like a moment of silence. Everything seems to turn into white noise as your brain goes into hyperdrive as you experience some kind of shock. Everything that happens after that is all a unique experience. What the people [...]

Expectation Meets Reality: Selecting the right species and breed

A lot of people decide on a pet as a spur of the moment choice. They come upon an animal they think needs them or they think is cute and they decide to take it home. Maybe they see a particular breed on Instagram or out walking and they decide that's the dog they want [...]

Don’t Use Another’s Measure of Success as Your Own

I'm realizing it's very common for people to get caught in the trap of using another person's model or measurement of success as their own. There is always a societal measure where we compare ourselves to our neighbors and there is success in your social status, your income, the people you know, your family; what [...]

How Many F*cks Should I Give?

I can't answer this question for anyone. Just being honest. I cannot tell anyone how to live their lives. That's not what this blog is about. What I can do is share my experience and opinion what I  learned about caring about things. There are different levels to caring. We care about ourselves and things [...]

Why I did not want to be a mother

They fuck you up, your mum and dad.       They may not mean to, but they do.   They fill you with the faults they had    And add some extra, just for you. Philip Larkin Despite what others might think, I actually am very much aware of my shortcomings. I have always been very guarded about how I'm [...]

Why ‘Adopt Don’t Shop’ is Just Bad Propaganda

I'm sure there are a few articles already written about why adopt don't shop is a horrible and unrealistic slogan, but here is my observation of it and why I think adopt or shop responsibly is more beneficial. This is going to be a lengthy analysis looking at the the biological reasons why this mantra [...]