What is MASCULINE?

This is not really a topic I had intended to talk about but I’ve been seeing a lot of things talking about feminism and toxic masculinity and even more unrelated just normal life instances that has been making this topic sit in the forefront of my mind recently. Particularly because Asian masculinity has been a […]

When You Realize You Are Falling For Someone YOU DON’T F*CKING KNOW (jking but not)

Ok. So I am in all honesty someone who has always been teetering on depression. I’m told it’s because I honestly just think too much. My brain is constantly cycling in this crazy storm and it jumps from everything from my opinion on japanese food to cultural appropriation and society issues with masculinity and the […]

Stop being a f*cking hater…

OK so for most people there is a level of hater. Especially when things are not going great for you or you perceive them as doing better. But I’ve noticed the internet gives us a medium where we can be our worst selves and have little consequences. And yes, it’s harmful, hurtful and just plain […]

Why I did not want to be a mother

They fuck you up, your mum and dad.       They may not mean to, but they do.   They fill you with the faults they had    And add some extra, just for you. Philip Larkin Despite what others might think, I actually am very much aware of my shortcomings. I have always been very guarded about how I’m […]

Introduction

Welcome to my blog. My name is Stefani. I am 26 years old. Wow! This sounds like one of those grade school introduction assignments… Anyways, I grew up in St. Catherine, Jamaica. Ethnically and culturally I suppose I would be considered Chinese Jamaican. Something that usually requires some explanation and I would like to get […]