What is MASCULINE?

This is not really a topic I had intended to talk about but I’ve been seeing a lot of things talking about feminism and toxic masculinity and even more unrelated just normal life instances that has been making this topic sit in the forefront of my mind recently. Particularly because Asian masculinity has been a […]

Stop Pushing Kids to College…

I’m not sure if this is an unpopular opinion because I have seen other articles with a similar tone but here is my perspective about college in the USA in 2019. More or less I do NOT think college is a waste of time. That being said, I think it is being misused and largely […]

When You Realize You Are Falling For Someone YOU DON’T F*CKING KNOW (jking but not)

Ok. So I am in all honesty someone who has always been teetering on depression. I’m told it’s because I honestly just think too much. My brain is constantly cycling in this crazy storm and it jumps from everything from my opinion on japanese food to cultural appropriation and society issues with masculinity and the […]

Stop being a f*cking hater…

OK so for most people there is a level of hater. Especially when things are not going great for you or you perceive them as doing better. But I’ve noticed the internet gives us a medium where we can be our worst selves and have little consequences. And yes, it’s harmful, hurtful and just plain […]

Why I did not want to be a mother

They fuck you up, your mum and dad.       They may not mean to, but they do.   They fill you with the faults they had    And add some extra, just for you. Philip Larkin Despite what others might think, I actually am very much aware of my shortcomings. I have always been very guarded about how I’m […]

Why ‘Adopt Don’t Shop’ is Just Bad Propaganda

I’m sure there are a few articles already written about why adopt don’t shop is a horrible and unrealistic slogan, but here is my observation of it and why I think adopt or shop responsibly is more beneficial. This is going to be a lengthy analysis looking at the the biological reasons why this mantra […]

Introduction

Welcome to my blog. My name is Stefani. I am 26 years old. Wow! This sounds like one of those grade school introduction assignments… Anyways, I grew up in St. Catherine, Jamaica. Ethnically and culturally I suppose I would be considered Chinese Jamaican. Something that usually requires some explanation and I would like to get […]

Unexpected Motherhood

When you find out you are pregnant when it was not a part of your plan, there’s like a moment of silence. Everything seems to turn into white noise as your brain goes into hyperdrive as you experience some kind of shock. Everything that happens after that is all a unique experience. What the people […]